Pamela's promises
You made promises:
1. You promised that you will do anything to protect our relationship
1a. You promised that you will everything to make our relationship last forever!
2. You promised that you will protect me from any harm >> other women,
friends, family, inlaws, exWife, exGF, anybody, vices, money,
gambling, addiction to drugs or alcohol or others, any
bad characters that would affect both of us
3.You promised you will STOP being negative
3a focusing only to your High School grad
3b thinking that you are stupid bcoz of only high grad
3c feeling low self esteem and fear of many comparison to females / males that
might have higher educational achievement
3d Fear of losing me
3e Fear of hurting you if you lose me...
3f Fear of you are not enough
3g fear of my standard is high and you are disappointing me
3h other fears..
4. You promised you will no longer curse and say bad words
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4d other negative and bad words...
5. You promised you will focus on your good sides
5a Good characters
>> sweet,
>>loving,
>> charming,
>> smart,
>> caring,
>> thoughtful,
>> helpful,
>> humble,
>> flexible,
>> understanding,
>> jealous enough to certain extent but NOT hold someon to his neck,
>> not controlling
>> handling various many people well
>> many more...
5b focus on the areas of accomplishments and skills that you had developed
5b-1 training in different diff languages
-Cantonese
-Mandarin
-Arabic
-and Filipino dialect - Ilongo and other visayan languages
5b-2 Received various certificates
-Handling dextrose,
-various injections
-handling cancer, diabetic, heart problematic patient, etc
-handling insulin,
-handling NGT, etc
5b-3 Can speak English fluently and spontaneous ; only needed few grammar corrections and others
-Better speaker than other who have college degree
-can spontaneously explain incidences and stories
-had taught Rana and Nadja how to speak english
-had guided children under your care when in HK and Singapore
-had good conversations with different types of people
-- foreigners >> Germans, Saudi and Lebanon Citizens, HK locals, singaporeans,
-- managers,
-- supv,
-- business owners,
-- and big time CEOs or Kings as employers in Saudi,
5c - Able to independently open small businesses
5c-1 RestoBar and Small retail store
-- managed various types of employees from cashier, servers, chef, house keepers
-- acquisition of various products from of drinks snacks, food and others to attract more customers
-- operate the business for xx years
-- handled various types of customers
5c-2 Small retail store
-- managed various2 types of employees
-- daily investories
-- acquisition of various products from various Suppliers
-- provided training to staff to develop strategies on selling fast and best method
5c-3 and Small Lending services
-- helping others with financial difficulties while you can earn some profits as well
-- ATM transactions
-- Securing loans to provide the services
-- Lots of people were thankful to get loans because they can NOT easily get loans from the banks
6. You promised to learn English and start with me telling you your Grammar mistakes and learn from it.
6a Practice daily by listening to newscaster or TV intervies and simulating how they talk and
6b Reading books
6c Writing to put them in practice
6d conversing with other americans or Fluent english speakers
6e Youtube tutorials
7. You promised you will listen to me and follow my positive advises and grow
8. There are many more, but its too much time consuming to type and think of those many things!
** to be continued
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